I worked with hundreds of clients who had been sexually assaulted when I was a social worker. We called them ‘survivors.’ In clinic today, as a Wellbeing Therapist, I continue to work with women, and men, who have experienced sexual assault at some point in their lives.
I do not call them 'survivors' any more. Frankly, I don’t like the term ‘survivor.’ For me, it implies that you never quite get over something. You might 'move on,' but you have never quite recovered. There’s still a part of you that is damaged, however big or small, conscious or subconscious. Part of you is still wounded, and you are still carrying that old hurt.
I acknowledge that this is true for many 'survivors.' However, I believe that there is something more to be had in the process of recovery and beyond. This is explained in more detail in this other article.
Here is an outline of the process I facilitate for my clients who want to do more than just survive - for those who want to thrive and have much more joy, peace and love in their lives.
It is widely acknowledged that the process of recovery takes time, commitment and persistence. For many people, it is a long and emotional journey. What I offer is the support for this journey. I can also shortcut the process so that you struggle less, save time, and enjoy even more of life sooner.
Like any new skill, recovering and thriving after sexual assault is not something you might be born knowing how to do. You can learn and do it by trial and error. If this is what you choose, please make sure you have a good support network. Or you can choose to work with an experienced professional like me. I've worked with many people and helped them thrive, and be free, after sexual assault.
Whichever way you choose, or whatever action you take, I hope this information has been useful for you, and that the journey is a fruitful one for you.
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